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Why Not Talk with Your Child's Teacher?

By: Colorín Colorado (2007)

There are many reasons parents may be reluctant to talk to teachers. Don't let these reasons discourage you!

I don't know English

Some parents are reluctant to talk with teachers if they cannot speak English well. There is probably someone at the school who can interpret for you. You can also bring a bilingual friend or relative with you. What you have to say is important.

I don't have legal immigration status

In the United States, public schools are required by law to educate all students. You don't have to answer questions about your legal status or your child's. You're not required to show any identification, and schools are not supposed to ask you for any. Talk with other parents to see what their experiences have been like with the school.

It feels rude to question a teacher

In some countries, parents are not expected to talk with a teacher about their child's learning. As a result, some parents feel it's rude to question a teacher or to suggest something different. In the U.S., however, it is not considered disrespectful. Teachers and schools expect parents to participate. Your ideas and questions are welcomed and needed.

I don't have the time or transportation

For some parents, it's hard to find time to meet with teachers or to attend school events, especially during the day. But there are other ways you can communicate with your child's teacher. See Ways You Can Help for some ideas.